He is not the right one if he:

• is too scared to meet your parents
• doesn’t want to meet your friends
• doesn’t come to greet you at the door when he picks you up
• won’t hold your hand in front of his friends
• loves [insert object here] more than you
• Puts himself selfishly before you
• puts you down in public
• can’t actually call you his girlfriend
• is too possessive
• hits you or physically hurts you
• discriminates against you (religion, race etc.)
• says “I love you” in the first week
• hangs out with his female friends more than you
• convinces you to isolate yourself from your friends, so you have no one else to depend on but him
• reads your text messages without your permission
• hides the fact that you are his girlfriend from his parents
• only texts and never calls
• cant figure out that you are absolutely wonderful in every way, shape and form

He could be the right one if he:

• loves you despite all of your struggles
• respects and accepts who you are
• takes you to meet his parents who have already heard so much about you
• keeps in touch